"Yeah, I don't know why she stopped talking to me all of a sudden. Now every time I walk past she rolls her eyes and turns her back."
"Oh, I don't know anything about that. She didn't say anything to me."
nod my head understandingly, lying through my teeth the entire time.
You see I know exactly why Ms. G has a beef with Ms. V, but I'm not
opening my big mouth.
I learned early on in my career to stay out
of drama. My very first job was a store where 98% of the employees were
women. I don't know what it is about women, but if you get too many in
the same place at the same time there's bound to be some issues.
Somebody doesn't like somebody else and this woman is talking behind the
back of this woman. It doesn't make sense because you can get two guys
who have a knock out, drag out, punching match and by the end of the
night they're having beers and watching the football game. What is it
about women that we can't get along?
There's a feud going on with
the women in my department. You see, last week, Ms. G overheard Ms. J
talking about her with Ms. K. Feeling outraged, Ms. G told off Ms. J,
who proceeded to call Ms. K on her off day and tell her what happened.
Now both Ms. K and Ms. J are totally ignoring Ms. G who could care less.
Now Ms. G went to our supervisor with an account that Ms. V was
supposed to be working on, but she messed it up. Now our supervisor has
warned Ms. V that Ms. G is sharpening her axe behind her back.
don't know if everybody is PMS-ing at the same time or what. All I know
is that we had a weekly lottery pool going then all of a sudden I get a
text from Ms. G that she wasn't participating anymore. I asked some
stupid questions about what was going on and found myself in the center
of a possible cat fight.
Now I'm in the awkward position of being
approached by the women who are feuding who want to rest their troubles
on my shoulders. I'm the type to get along with everybody, so I'm still
talking and interacting with these women, despite the visible friction. I
make a point of not saying anything negative about the other parties
involved, instead I offer neutral words of support, mindful of not
committing to any side in this arms race. Like my mother says; A dog
that brings a bone will carry a bone. In other words if they bring you
info on someone, they'll take what you say to the other party. I don't
want anyone saying that I said anything about any body so I took myself
out of the equation.
As women, we have a lot of issues to deal
with, which makes it even sadder that we can't stick together. Hopefully
the cooler fall temperatures will chill the tempers in my department
and things will go back to normal. Whatever these women decide to do
about their situation, I know one thing is true; I'm staying my behind
out of all that drama.